You know those unexpected memories that resurface—the ones you thought you deleted or buried so deep they’d never return? One of those showed up in my photo memories recently. A snapshot from 2023. Just a simple image, but with it came a flood of emotions I wasn’t ready for. 2023 was a year that almost …
Author: vivicomfort
Hi! My name is Vivi, pronuced V and then another V.
I somehow convinced myself that the World needs to hear my thoughts, so here I go!
Follow me into the land of random thoughts and perhaps some valuable life lessons, along with a dash of funny stories.
Feel free to read, write, laugh, cry and maybe even be inspired.
Finding Peace in Solitude
This month has been one of deep introspection — a journey inward I didn’t know I needed until the noise around me became unbearable. One of the biggest lessons I’m learning in this season of healing is how to stop needing to be with someone. As an empath whose love languages are physical touch, gifts, …
The Resilient Force of a Father
As Father’s Day approaches, I find myself reflecting deeply on the two men in my life who have shaped my view of love, protection, and what it truly means to be a man—my father and my brother. The Man Who Gave Me Everything, With So Little My father was dealt one of the roughest hands …
The Power of a Hug
“There are moments in life when words fail, and all the soul craves is to collapse into arms that don’t ask questions—just hold. The kind of hug that doesn’t fix anything, but makes everything feel survivable.” There’s something sacred about a hug—the kind that isn’t rushed or shallow, but deep and grounding. The kind where …
Build on the Rock
There’s an old parable from the Bible that’s been echoing in my heart lately: “The wise man built his house upon the rock…” It tells of two men—one wise, one foolish. The wise man built his house on solid rock; the foolish one on shifting sand. When the rains poured and the winds howled, the …
The Way I Love
There’s something about the way I love that I’m only just beginning to understand. It’s not casual. It’s not convenient. It’s consuming. Intentional. Sacred. When I love, I don’t tiptoe. I leap. I don’t whisper affection—I speak it fluently, like a second language. I don’t just touch the surface—I dive into the depths of who …
Steak and Potatoes
Coming from an Indian heritage, the one thing I treasure deeply—aside from aging like fine wine—is the food. The aromas, the rich spices, the layers of texture and tradition. For those just scratching the surface, it’s butter chicken and CTM. But dive deeper, and Indian cuisine becomes a euphoric journey, each dish telling its own …
The Picture That Broke Me Open
There are moments in life that arrive quietly—without warning, without fanfare—but leave an imprint so deep, you feel them for days, weeks, maybe even forever. One such moment came to me in the form of a photograph. A simple picture. One I didn’t even know existed until someone placed it in front of me and …
How a sitcom, a heartbreak, and a shift in perspective redefined how I see myself—and love
Perspective is everything. There’s one text from my ex-husband that’s been seared into my memory—not because it was romantic, or dramatic, or life-changing. But because it was… relentlessly Michael Scott. It read: “Michael Scott, too loud. Michael Scott, too loud. Michael Scott, too loud…” Over and over. It just kept going. Like some modern version …
Love?
Have you ever had a day that everything you have been avoiding just all intersected and pushed, nay, shoved you into opening up the Pandora’s box and unleashing everything you have been avoiding and holding in? No? Well, let me share my story then. Also…perhaps it’s time ya start introspecting..the year is coming to an …
V|I, Comfort 